LOVE

Love is wanting the other’s happiness , is attraction , is esteem and respect. Making the other happy makes us happy too!

Love is doing sacrifices for the other. Because he’s the most important person in our life after ourselves.

Love NEVER is possession. Love doesn’t involves jealousy, because the other is free to even love somebody else too (and still love us). If we love, we set free.

The other is OTHER from us. He loves in another way (but the magic lies also in recognizing it’s signals) , we MUST NOT expect our same way of loving from the other. He doesn’t think like us, he is another living being.

Love shouldn’t be conditional or either opportunistic. Already too many things in life are, and feelings shouldn’t be. That’s because we, as humans, should have the ace in the hole of working towards higher aims. Because we have that models in our minds.

Love, oh love…should aim for the infinity. When the lover dies, love could even not end.

It’s not required for lovers to be alike, nor to like the same things. Or you’d actually be looking for yourself. You don’t have to want to change your lover, or otherwise you’d actually be searching for a surrogate for not succeeding in changing yourself. Differently, trying to dull the corners to match it’s indispensable for a relationship.

Love is helping your lover grow. Helping him to evolve and go beyond his limits it’s not wanting him to change, but wanting him to become his best version.

Love stories can end. But that doesn’t mean they haven’t been real.

And eventually, love is passion. And sex. And fighting for each others. Because it’s truly a fortune our atoms have met the atoms of that other unique person in this moment of existence, and we should keep firmly this miracle safe.